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Saturday, March 6, 2010

Forgiving and Forgetting

Forgiving and Forgetting


The act of forgiving a person who may have hurt us is seen as a noble thing to do.

Forgetting it is another issue or another process.

A good person is usually defined as one who can really forgive and forget things.

It is difficult to say that whether the person is an evil or good

by his or her reaction towards the idea both idea forgiving n forget.

Some says it depends on how bad the scar have they left to us.

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Hurt. How do we measure it? By the act that has been done upon us or the effect of it?

It does has a connection with our capability of forgiving and forgetting things that a person did to us.

We do forgive and forget little things that might cause us pain.

But again, this is very subjective in its idea. Feelings are varies from one to another.

How do we know that some things should be forgiven and some does not even deserve a second chance?

Forgetting may take a longer time or may not at all compared to forgiving .

Thus, we view that forgive and forget as two separate entities. Are they, really?
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When I began to practice the act of forgiving and forgetting,

the infinite beauty of being happy suddenly becomes clear.

Forgiving someone and forgetting for what has been done is more

than just about changing the personality within myself.

The clear state of mind is what really matters the most. It is priceless.

Only by then that everything else comes easily.

On top of that not only it I attract good things for myself

but it also attracts me to good vibes with other people.
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Forgiving and forgetting is however a matter of choices.

By not doing it, it is not an evil act.

I've seen the two sides of the paths and each leads to different possibilities.

But, there is no point of putting a grudge too long on someone.

Deep down inside our heart we know it will definitely leave us feeling incomplete.


Kapish!!!!!!!!

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